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How to be a Good Communicator - in Business and in Life
by Craig Lock


How to be a good communicator and how to make the most of your relationships:

* be interested in other people - show that you are by asking questions (but don't be insincere or hypocritical - nice word). Not mundane comments about the weather. Say something interesting like: "How's the back yard?" Be tactful. Don't say, "has grannie 'popped off' yet?"

* be punctual - this shows you are responsible, courteous and respectful of other's time.

* enjoy other people's company and have FUN.

* tell the good news (without being a "Bible-basher"). Be positive and other people will enjoy your company.

* be decisive - this shows confidence

* like yourself and be positive about your life. Doing this will draw others towards you.

* keep your sense of humor. Hope you've still got one after reading all this!

* tell people what you like about them without embarrassing them. 

* be realistic in your goals, plans and desires

* look at people, when you talk to them

* spend time alone with your partner. Go on walks together. If you are not in a close relationship, discuss what's happening in your life from time to time with a close friend. If like me, you don't have one, join "rent-a-friend".

* give and take in your relationships.

* smile often (not inanely).

* respect people (for what they are).

* recognize that right and wrong are never black and white. There are always three sides to any story: your side, the other person's...and the TRUTH.

* try to put yourself in the other person's shoes (only if they fit you). I like walking a mile in another man's shoes. By the time he finds out, I'm a mile away and I've got his shoes!

* watch, wait and listen when developing relationships

* be assertive, but cautious

* don't gossip, backbite and backstab

* personal integrity is crucial at ALL TIMES. Be true to your values and beliefs...

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